It was quite pathetic in the end really. I don't know. Maybe it was true love. But in the end..it all seemed so worthless.
If you love someone, tell them, if not they will never know. Seriously. They won't. All that crap about showing them through other means or waiting for them to pick it up.
They won't.
For me the person knew. I waited 3 years hoping she would change what she thought on me but she didn't.
But if you hold it in you for 3 years....idk. But i think thats not truly waiting. You aren't waiting for anyone but yourself. There's no point keeping it inside. The other person isn't going to know. You have to tell him/her someday anyway unless you want to be miserable all your life.
If you're afraid of rejection then all I can say is suck it up and face it. Its something you have to accept if you play the game of love. If he/she rejects you then suck it up and move on.
If not you're just wasting your time. Either way, if you don't move on and if you don't tell them.
Don't always wait for them to make the first move. Chances are they won't.
Edit:
In essence i directed the above to someone. But I guess its general advice to anybody. But whether or not you actually want to take love advice from me is another matter.
Wtf? since when do I dispense love advice.
Ian you are going insane.
Nvm.
I hope the person I directed this at reads this.
And though I sort of regret typing what I did up there. I shan't delete it.
Its my new policy.
Instead of deleting. Justify.
XD
Or attempt to.
Or fess up and say omg i was such a retard. Ignore please or look upon the remnants of my stupidty.
Labels: Love, open letter
