Why can't you see that to us, insensitivity hurts. It doesn't matter how right you are about the issue, we can't and won't listen if you barge ahead like that.
Don't rush us. We hate it. Don't press us because you want an answer. How about considering what we want? We get strong feelings about things at times, and a lot of time its a gut feeling and we can't place a finger on it. We aren't trying to waste time. The feeling is strong enough that we raise it. Its not just feelings all the time. They usually are based on something, and we've learnt to trust these feelings.
No, you can accuse us all you want about being emotional and unreasonable, you are equally unreasonable, if not for emotional reasons, then perhaps an inability to admit fault. No one is perfect, everyone is wrong at times, including you.
And please, realize that sometimes, the teacher is at fault. You have to know when to take a stand. Cause when you don't, we notice.
And it hurtz so bad.
Really.
Labels: feelings, myself, open letter, trust